Considering types of family creates a lot of headache for those who are still young or who have been experiencing “home” to live in. Although different families i.e. nuclear family, multigenerational or single parent home are various choices for people, I am still for that living in elementary family is much beneficial.
In a mordent society, raising children up by just two hands are more and more popular, which means dads or moms are in charge of taking care of their children in this type of house. Hence, a parent will have more time to spend and effort to take on his or her babies. It can be easily seen that asking for permission or getting approval of how to bring up children is unessential. Additionally, arguments or controversial conversation will not usually happen due to only one mother or one father. Nonetheless, only living with dad or mom might not really be an advantage for the young generation. A father or a mother needs money to help their kids, so time is a problem; as a result, loneliness or even depression – in near future – will dig deep into their health.
Differentially, loneliness is seldom found in multigenerational house in which kids will be together will all ages such as grandparents , parents or even relatives. Staying in the same roof with various people create a very warm and happy living environment for kids. There, kids have more chances to approach colorful knowledge and experience of life. It cannot deniable that the old age always share and advices the younger one; then, the kids inheriting good life tips will tell their parents or grandparents how to apply in life and what gotten profoundly and gradually. That builds very strong bonds in an extended family. However, a big gap of generation could be seen here. A very well-educated house is a place that teenagers or adolescences always listen to and follow adults, but their behaviors and attitudes are changed within a very modern, dynamic and energetic society, which makes the gap get bigger. The distance of thoughts, behaviors or else is available even in the same roof. That never or rarely happens in a nuclear family.
In contrast to single parent or extended family, parents and children have more time together and narrower distance appears. A parent is able to support the other to look after kids if the other is busy; hence, children have affection and care of both father and mother without worrying of loneliness. Also, it’s much easier for parents for deal with argument or dissimilarity in teaching and raising up kids because share, sympathy and love are mutual. This is not to say, of course, that there is no drawback of very little difference between fathers and mothers, but it cannot be against the better development of children.
In conclusion, family of a pairs of adults and children open a wider and better path for a balanced and well-educated life in both soul and biology for kids. They are close enough to parents and parents get to understand their babies just in their pocket.