(Moi nguoi gop y giup minh nhe)
Nobody can achieve success without experiencing costly failure. In some respects, failure can create more undreamed-of advantages for people who faced with it than they ever know. Some people think that failure is meaningless, and tend to avoid of getting it by all means, just because they desire success. In contrast with them, I believe that failure is priceless lesson, and we should experience it in order to get success in the future. Failure can surely create memorization, creativity; sympathy as well as help people recognize their true friends.
Firstly, learning process is a frequent and continual activity, by making impression on human’s mind, it create memorization. This feature can answer that some students could not memorize although they read many time within one day before the test. Just because of impression, I believe that if they review their lesson frequently during whole semester, their brain could have more time to make impression for that lesson. Failure also has an influence on memorization by the same way. It links that event with reasons caused failure and reminds us to avoid getting same mistakes in future. Moreover, creativity may appear as we are brought to bay, and we will know how creative we are. For instance, before Edison invented the first electric light, he had failed a thousand times.
Secondly, if we are not in the same situation, we could not penetrate the feeling of people who get failure. Thus, failure teach us a lesson in sympathy, thus deeply sympathize with people when assess any matter. I saw a fiction movie about a young married couple, the husband going for work hardly, and the wife staying at home for housework and babies. The husband thinks that his wife is lazy because she just shoulders very simple and easy tasks, unlike him. So, he want to convert his responsibility to his wife’s within a week, and his wife must go for work. But, just after the second day, he realize that housework and taking care of their babies are not easy as he believed. Then, the husband deeply regrets what happened and helps his wife in doing housework. By that, without experiencing same situation, we could not tough people’s feeling.
Finally, a friend in need is a friend indeed. We can find out who our friends are when we get failure. When people stand at top of success, many partners come to them because of wealth, social standing and business besides true friendship. But when they fall into tough time, do all their partners stay with them or just leave away? Friends who are always beside you whenever you need them are your true friends.
By those reasons I mentioned above, I totally agree that we could learn a large number of valuable lessons when we get failure. We don’t want to fail, but failure precedes success and no pain, no gain.