Adults have to teach children how to recognize the variousness between good example and bad example as they still a child. The mount of people believe that the way to help them learn this difference is chastising. In my opinion, I totally disagree with this idea and I would demonstrate it in below paragraphs.
Undoubtedly, there are some main reasons to belief that people had better use speech rather than violence. First and for most, kids just are able to repair their mistakes when they understand it clearly. By that I mean, words and gentle method could help children bear in mind and identify their faults on behalf of punishing them which just make them be scared and reserved. Nowadays, according to the host of parents in the world, they spend their time explaining about the result for their son when they make a mistakes in a regular basis or use some method without violence, such as they require their children keep silent during a time or not watching television all day. Secondly, chastisement is not the only way to make them realize this difference. In other work, they are able to choose some movies or comedies which are a good content to educate children. Parents would show the causes and the sequences of characters in movies or comedies if they had a bad habits. Recently, the host of entertainments have a trend to produce many films about good practice in the society.
Besides, abusing punishment too much could have a heavy effect on their thinking. In the past, parents often use it too much, which just make them more frightened even detest their family. Furthermore, it not until influence negatively children’s mental health but also change their behavior in the future. For example, some child who are castigated regularly have a trend to protest adults.
Once again, I strongly believe that people should not use punishment to help them learn the distinction between right and wrong. On the other hand, speech and light method are a good way to make them recognize.